If the toy clutter is causing you stress, there’s likely a need to purge unwanted, broken, and outgrown toys. Include kids in the process of decluttering as much as possible, even if that means they’re just sitting on the floor playing while you do all the work. It’s important to show your kids how to be mindful of their possessions.
Start by gathering all the toys in one place to sort and determine which items to purge. If at any point your kids become overwhelmed by this process, that’s okay, be encouraging, affirm that it’s okay to feel frustrated, and take lots of breaks (cookies optional).
As adults, we may find Marie Kondo’s practice of thanking our possessions before we donate them a bit silly, but I have found that this works really well for young children. So if they have a toy they don’t play with anymore, have them tell it, “thank you for all the fun times, but now it’s time for you to get a new kid.”
Any progress is a victory, whether that’s finding two things to donate or ten. If there’s an item they really want to hold onto, even if you feel it’s something they no longer need, let them keep it and reassess the next time you declutter.
Kid or adult, decluttering becomes easier as you go. I always recommend starting with the easy items to give your child (and you) a sense of accomplishment and ease right out of the gate. Once they make it to the tougher items, they’ll make better, quicker decisions.